MLC Divorce and Cancer Continued

[peacetoday]

Hang in there

You XH sounds typical for MLC..Totally focused on him and spinning..newly married and expecting

You on the other hand seem balanced..going through cancer and holding your own
Im glad to hear your results are favorable

I would try to not give XH too much headspace..Maybe he can never be satisfied
he has an unsatiable need and will point the finger at you

I would try to be cordial to him at at same time ignore his requests as you have no power to make your kids forgive him

it will take time for everyone to adjust

I think what helped my kids the most during transition was me being as stable as possible..( even though I felt nuts)
I listened to them especially my preteen who had a need to talk al to
It helped her and today at 20 she is fabulous

hang in and just take care of you
you are doing good and healing

wishing you a peaceful evening