Thank you. In the back of my mind I knew that. We haven't discussed anything further since she stated she wanted to separate at the end of the school year. Never had the word divorce come up but I know it's on her mind.
I know I can't bring up a discussion about our marriage. I do feel less tension when we are together. We discuss our boys achievements in school and hockey. We are very cordial towards one another.
One of the reasons we are having problems now is due to her keeping feelings bottled up, never expressing her true thoughts when I have done or said something that made her annoyed or frustrated with me. She is strong willed and somewhat stubborn and I'm concerned that I may never know if what I'm doing to save our marriage is working.
She said once that if she swept the problem under the rug things would eventually work out. Obviously when I felt something was wrong t would ask. Unfortunately all our in d path discussions about our relationship were only focused on our problems never about intimacy or anything else about the positives about our marriage
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
