Personally I would wait much longer before looking for a date with her. Possibly to the point that she opens the door to it? Any point you pursue too quickly she will most likely pull herself back into her she'll and you will be starting at square one again...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home