Hey OhGreat,

I cant do the party, I don't know enough people yet that would come. I know it sounds bad but my friends were her friends, and my old friends, well, my W didn't like them and stupid me I listened to her and I lost contact with them.

I could call the baby sitter to look after the kids and I could go see a movie. That's a good idea that I wouldn't have thought about.

But then I would have to tell My W because she will know because of the neighbor. But I just say I was out. But she wont be happy with that answer and will probe me more to get info and if I don't give it to her she will get mad. Then she wont believe me that I went out on my own.

So this sounds like some good GAL, any other ideas besides a movie?


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016