Yeah, she had me convinced for a long time that she would never be like that and here we are. I'm not saying in any way that is the only reason, I just know there was influence coming from that direction which didn't help anything.
Seems that they all tend to think like that. Take my W for example. I have no doubt whatsoever that someone - my bet is her sister - is pushing her hard and telling her the grass is always greener. I say the sister, because they are very very close and she (the SIL) is going through a D, too. I have seen the texts from her telling the W how much better she would be off, etc. Hell, even the sister's husband (who, strangely enough while supposedly divorcing the SIL) remains "friends" and they all talk on the phone at the same time - well, the SIL lets her STBXH talk to my W on the same phone... She came home one day talking to them and as she entered the house where we were the tone changed. So I KNOW (or at least I think I do) they are talking and influencing my W. So what do I do?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
