Keeping the door cracked

[beckyb]

A thanks for the kind words. Ironically H's 1st wife cheated repeatedly and is still married to her last lover.

I get very discouraged because he is giving up so much for OW. She must hold very strong attraction. I have to remind myself that H is deeply depressed and has experienced a lot of trauma. Truth is he is not capable of being any different without a lot of help. It would be a very long road back. I would probably be better of accepting the one inevitable and moving on. Just can't do it quite yet.