Throw a party. If you can, throw a party or hire a babysitter, go out (anywhere) and come home late. Writing that, I like the babysitter route better. You don't do that right? I seem to recall (though I am admittedly often confused) that your wife doesn't like babysitters. Get a babysitter and go out.
And, while I'm probably alone on this-every time your buddy next door talks to your W, go out of your way to say hi to HIS friend alone too.
