Ugh. I see a lot of my own behaviors to my H in this post. I suffer from depressive disorder, and there was a long period of time I withdrew from everything. I realize now how deeply I hurt him. I've been working hard to learn how to manage my mental health, so that I never miss out on my own life again.
To see some of the same behaviors from another H' s point of view hurts...but it also helps show me a roadmap to redemption.
