just to let you know. I am still in our house. I know she could not afford to stay there. I am trying my best to keep the kids with as much as they are used to as possible. In our separation agreement it states that i will have to pay her equity on the house. I had the language drawn up where i can make payments to her. i also added in that if i am not able to afford those payments then we are to sell the house. I also added that this will not begin until the D is final if that is the path that is taken.
I agree with you and think the Sep agreement is the first place to start.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15