just to let you know. I am still in our house. I know she could not afford to stay there. I am trying my best to keep the kids with as much as they are used to as possible. In our separation agreement it states that i will have to pay her equity on the house. I had the language drawn up where i can make payments to her. i also added in that if i am not able to afford those payments then we are to sell the house. I also added that this will not begin until the D is final if that is the path that is taken.

I agree with you and think the Sep agreement is the first place to start.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15