hey OhGreat,

I don't want to sell or move right now. And from my understanding I don't have to if I don't want to yet. I think she is using this as an escape from what is happening. She says to other people that I am forcing her to sell because I am not letting her rent out the basement to students. She wants me to walk away with out getting paid my share of the equity and just let her and the kids live in the house, while I go live in an apartment somewhere nearby. She want the S she can move out. I don't even know how that is even an option in her head. If one person moves out the other person buys them out. She wants us to try it and she wants to see if she misses me and if she want D or not.

I am staying in the house, I am rebuilding my credit, I am looking out what is best for me and the kids. The sale of the house is not on the table yet but she has been asking me about it and has been talking to relators and looking at going to open houses on her own.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016