in house seperation (3)

[vise82]

Hey OTW,

You are right I cant tell her to not look at houses, but I can tell her I am not ready to sell the house I am in right now. She plans on moving out with out me. I need my ducks in an order first. I thought we would have had a S agreement first before she would want to sell. We have no custody agreement yet. It seems she is wanting to skip that step. But I think she sees it a taking money out of the equity to pay for the L to get all that.

I don't know what she is thinking, she is like a fish out of water, all over the place. She is not telling me anything.

So If I understand your sit you still live in the family home and your W moved out?

W wants to move out and own a house that is big enough ect with a long list of everything she wants. She is not going to move out for the sake of moving out. She is only going to be able to buy what she can afford. This is the same cycle from before, then when she cant get what she wants she will go to her parents for help.

I have not said anything to my W about it yet, I am waiting for her to come to me. A while back she mentioned she wanted me to fix up all the problems with the house to get it ready for sale. I am working on fixing my credit and seeing where I stand for getting a place on my own, I can't afford to keep the house on my own.