Hey RAI,

This is where I am at, I am still looking at what she does and it is affecting what I do. I can not control her. I can control what I do. I decided I an not going to get into a fight with her right now over anything trivial.

The mood at home has been good, we had a discussion over finances, but I thought it was there was validating. I am stay true to my boundaries and at the same time trying to keep the interactions pleasant.

I am having a hard time letting go.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016