This is where I am at, I am still looking at what she does and it is affecting what I do. I can not control her. I can control what I do. I decided I an not going to get into a fight with her right now over anything trivial.
The mood at home has been good, we had a discussion over finances, but I thought it was there was validating. I am stay true to my boundaries and at the same time trying to keep the interactions pleasant.
I am having a hard time letting go.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016