Vise I am a little confused. Why would you tell her she cant look at a new house. She plans on moving without you correct?
If she is focused on this and you are going to stand in her way then this may not get you the results you want. My W went into overdrive the month before she moved. All i could do was get out of the way. I am in first week without her and I must say that it is very difficult. I thought i was through a lot of the the feelings i am going through again.
I also know that she made bad financial decisions regarding her move and am afraid for her, but this is her journey and she needs to do this alone. My opinion does not matter. I was a fixer and tried to provide everything to the extent that it made her feel resentment towards me because she did not get to do things herself.
I think you need t just focus on what you will be doing in the future with her on a mission like she is.
Yes it will hurt more, but I think you are going through this part either way.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
