Haha yeah I get what you are saying ancaire!

Spiff, if I were to start a heart to heart with her, even with a script I know it wouldn't follow how I had it planned. My emotions would get the best of me and I would end up dumping all my cards out face up... As far as her friends, most are sneaky, cheating, system using hookers with babies to 4 different guys. One of them for certain has told her how much better off financially she will be if she gets rid of me and keeps my wallet! XF showed me the message back when things were good and made a comment something to the effect, "she doesn't know how good we have it". I can only imagine what is being said now? I know it's mind reading but I know it is happening.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home