Mutatio, sometimes I think I am evolving. At other times I wonder if I am just the same old guy that got into this mess. But I now have done my list of goals to becoming roiste 2.0. I need to fill in some more details and actions, but my roadmap is almost in place. I am a little excited about where that will bring me.

I am really digging deep and this is going to be my focus for the rest of the year. I imagine six months is not unreasonable to give this project.I won't set a deadline but will have measurable revisable mini goals.

Over time I intend to replace five undesirable characteristics with five that I want or that are admirable. These I have chosen. I will rework my original DR goals too. I will keep going on all the other goals/actions already put in place, with a high priority on kids. Included in this will be tonnes of reading too.

Z, I know all of this is not filling the hole you mentioned about me getting out and doing stuff for me. But that will not be neglected. This weekend I have been asked to go mountain biking by two groups and a hike too. I may not manage all three, but definitely two.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together