I have wanted to have a solid heart to heart for many months now. The problem is, if I were to actually get her to agree to sit down and chat (I don't think that would be a hard challenge), I would be laying all my cards on the table and pouring my heart out... Exactly what we can't do.
A heart to heart doesn't have to entail laying the cards on the table. But sometimes it can lead to more understanding. I guess I am saying is that there can be different types of heart to hearts. If this is something you want to do, maybe have sort of a script and don't waver from it? I know that would be difficult, but I can't think of any other way.
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Sure it is possible that would work, very unlikely though. More likely to be seen as pursuing, begging and pleading? So in the end it would not only push her away but give her and her friends something new to make fun of me about.
That is the danger! All about chances and what are you willing to take? There will come a point where you reach that fork in the road, but I have the feeling you aren't there yet. Are her friends making fun of you for real? I guess that could be a danger but shouldn't really matter.
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In the meantime I will continue on my path of upgrading myself and keep thinking about my forthcoming choices l.
Bingo. That is of utmost importance! Keep up the good work - you will be fine!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
