N.U.T.s second draft with one extra

1. I am faithful to myself first, then my wife and our marriage - through better or worse.
2. I take care of my body through good nutrition and physical exercise
3. I exercise 3/4 times per week or more.
4. I choose to pursue friendship with people whose values and priorities are similar to my own.
5. I live below my means.
6. I choose to drink alcohol in moderation, not smoke, not gamble or be addicted to drugs.
7. I put my needs first, then my families. If I meet my needs then my family will benefit
8. I put my children's future as my highest priority. Their safety, security, happiness.
9. I value my dignity, my appearance, my demeanour.
10. I work to live, not live to work
11. I will have me time for at least  60 minutes per day. During this time I will relax, and do some of my favourite things, read, drink coffee, fix my bike, watch TV. Just relax

Last edited by isittoolate; 11/05/15 07:06 AM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16