Hi Uphill..just checking on you. How long to wait is a tough question to answer. I hate being lonely, but don't have any desire to think about dating anyone else as long as I love my H. I think it's a different answer for everyone, partly based on feelings, time passed, and opportunities. If Gerard Butler came knocking on my door, I'm pretty sure I'd be like, "H who?" LOL
You're really doing well, and I'm so pleased for you.