Hello Enigma! Just caught up on your situation. You're in such a great mental place...I am completely in awe! I'm not so great seeing what's right in front of me in my life, but I see far more clearly when it's someone else.
When you said W wanted to know if son got hurt, my first thought was, "oh, no!" If she expected you to get more bent out of shape about OM than you've been showing, she may start some beautiful teenage game-playing. I have seen so many W do this, it makes me sick.
Any bump, bruise, scratch, or red spot gets questioned to feed their need for drama. Never mind that active children get banged up on their own. If she wasn't with him, you either hurt him or let him get hurt. I hope your W doesn't start playing that game. It does nothing but cause really bad feelings. Two is not the "terrible" age....they're still somewhat docile at 2. It's the 3's that are hard. My youngest were identical twin, redheaded boys. I cried a lot from sheer frustration and exhaustion when they were 3. LOL
I'm so envious you have a little one. I loved being mama more than anything. I had no idea how quickly that time was going to fly by.
