ILYNOT, from what I've read here you have tremendous strength and integrity. While the situation is what no one could ever ask for, you have handled with poise and grace. From a position of strength and confidence, you know what you want in life and that is amazing.
Keep looking forward and this journey of growth will continue.
Peace.
M: 33 W: 30 T: 14 M: 9 S2 BD: May/2015 (w moves into spare bedroom one week later) EA / PA (discovered): June/2015 W moves out (living with OM): Sep/2015