Ep, it's time to hire the accountant. The cost to do so is less than your lost legal fees should you abandon the collaborative process and certainly less than litigation. You can remind H that you only need one accountant, he's a neutral party that can help you both reach your goals. I met with our forensic accountant this week and he gave me a lot to think about. Totally worth the money.
Let the pettiness roll off of you. The wind may howl but it cannot move the mountain. Be the mountain.
