Hi vanillia. Just caught up and would really appreciate an update or even a quick post to let us know your ok.
I read your last post and feel your taking to much blame. / responsabty H was a sneaky , manipulative basta@d You are a caring , decent person How where you supposed to see his actions for what they were ????? You loved the man and having the privilege to getting to know you , maybe you still do.
Let go the blame you are carrying , it's not your burden to carry. I defend him in eaier days because your posts did not show his true character because at that point you couldn't see them. I'm a cynical type who has employed 100"s of people over the years and I gave your H the benefit of the doubt Yourl love made you blind and that's ok Your not blind now so let's move forward H is done. Please don't let his actions define you
I've been privileged to become a friend on line and trust me , H is the big loser here. With you he had a chance to recover and become the man he should be , without you be is going nowhere.
Sand I and job were good enough to clarify the rules on my thread and I'm always here , online or in real life if you need someone.
I worry ( like plenty of others ) that you are ok. I ask again for an update
How's Vanillia ..... Really ?
How's glam sis ????
How often do you see ghost of black cat ??? It must be heart warming to now she's still around
