Sandi2 I mentioned in a previous post that I had found out she had been reading a book about controlling abusive men and understanding them and she had hi lighted many sections

Do I feel at the time I was bing abusive ..no I did not see it but on reflection I can see why she would feel this way .

I have self enrolled on a program for abusive men I really did not feel I fitted in to this group that everyone else in the group seemed far worse than myself but when they showed me something called the power and control model of an abusive relationship I can see areas that I did do this and I feel ashamed to admit it and more ashamed that I did not realise I was doing this.






Do you want some examples ?

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.