ILYNOT - I commend you for deciding to stick around to both help others and continue to work on yourself. That's a great decision, and others will truly benefit from an experienced voice.
I've dropped the rope in my situation, and have no idea what the future will bring, but I intend to keep posting, helping others, and growing as an individual while I focus on myself. I believe this site to be a Godsend. It truly saved my sanity, and probably my life, right after BD. I don't know where I'd be if it weren't for the experienced voices who jumped in and pointed me in the right direction.
On behalf of all the future panicked LBS who find the site, I say thank you for your decision to stay and help out, from one DBer to another.
Thank you! yes if it wasn't for this website, I would have not learned anything about myself, I would have not learned to be patient, to look in the mirror, to validate, understand, listen, and the list goes on and on.
I am grateful I found this place, I truly wish I would have found it a long time ago. But it happened the way it happened for a reason.
I am still learning and will continue to post from time to time. It is actually very healing to be around others facing similar situations, I no longer feel alone.
