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No I have not told her in details, but I told her that he is coming on to me while I said no. However, H seemed to be really done with me and he has no physical contact with me at all.

Sotto,

It is hard to focus on myself sometimes when I discover more lies and betrayal. I try to take it one day at a time, one thing in front of me at a time. I surely have stronger bond with my kids and I am truly grateful for them.

How was your workshop? I hope you have gained helpful insight with people in the similar situation. We do need help from each other. Sometimes, it feels like I am the only one in so much pain. Sometimes, I feel like I am willing to swap anyone else's crappy day for my life right now.