I definatly understand that would be a roadblock. But on that end of it, how long can you leave a crumbling bridge go before the cones go up and repairs get done?

I would say I am 50/50 on these thoughts right now. I'm not going to jump into anything serious right off the bat. If I click with somebody, maybe see where it goes? I don't want to make the road home bumpier than it has to be. I also don't want to let XF have the power to know I am sitting around single as a backup plan either. Lots of thinking to do...


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home