Where I stand conflicted on that end of it... I don't think I will ever lose that hope of one day it would be nice to build a new R. But if I don't ever get over it and don't look into other options I may live life for somebody who doesn't love me back forever? There's no guarantee no matter what I do that I will ever get another chance. Do I hope I do? 100%! Does that mean it gonna happen? Prolly 10% chance? No decisions are going to happen overnight, this will be a tough one which requires a lot more thought.
Ultimately, I agree with this. One day, I may find myself with the opportunity to reconcile with STBX. But Ive come too far to continue putting my life on hold for that day. But that decision is purely up to you.
I do agree with spiff that by going out with anyone, you are adding roadblocks to her way back to you. The question to you is whether that is important or not.
