Ontheup, Thanks for the encouraging words. That's pretty much how our interactions are with each other. Still legally married but living separated. No date set to talk again, but we've both agreed our finances aren't where they should be to divorce. We still share the asset of two homes, one rental which we both pay on and on the to keep a rental. The marital home which I pay, and one of the vehicles which she pays.
Sometimes I wish she'd come back and want to work on the marriage and sometimes I don't. Nonetheless, I'm in a better place now coming up past a year since bomb drop.
Me:30 W:34 M:8 T:9 D:9 D:4 D:3 S:4 S:1 D bomb: 8/2014 S 12/2014 PA Confirmed in 3/2015 if I recall correctly