ILYNOT - I commend you for deciding to stick around to both help others and continue to work on yourself. That's a great decision, and others will truly benefit from an experienced voice.

I've dropped the rope in my situation, and have no idea what the future will bring, but I intend to keep posting, helping others, and growing as an individual while I focus on myself. I believe this site to be a Godsend. It truly saved my sanity, and probably my life, right after BD. I don't know where I'd be if it weren't for the experienced voices who jumped in and pointed me in the right direction.

On behalf of all the future panicked LBS who find the site, I say thank you for your decision to stay and help out, from one DBer to another.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti