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I don't think the Board Administrators control what we do off line. The Board policies are about what is not allowed on the DB Board.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Sandi is correct. What you do on your own time off the forum is your business. The Board Administrators only control what goes on here, the DB Board. However, with that in mind, please remember that we can't post our contact info here or it will be censored and repeat offenders are then placed on moderation for a period of time.
Hi all. Thanks for checking in. I'm doing ok and moving on with life. I have a date for Saturday night with a doctor Long story but let's see what happens. She's very attractive and that's inside and out and I feel I've got to give dating a fair chance as before I was hoping W would reconsider and my heart wasn't in it. This time the lady seems very suited to me and I'm looking forward to getting to know her
W doing more of the same I will post more but nothing dramatic. Lots of sadness and strange behaviour
Kids doing ok and business good. Figures for October where up on last year so that's good. Lots of storage coming in which is always good
Not sleeping too well and not sure why. Had a few good days recently so strange that sleep would be suffering
Pink , please lpost. !! ! Your important to me and I would love to know what's happening with you and your boys
Thanks for checking on me I will post tomorrow with more details
Good for you Rd. Nothing wrong with spending time with someone new. As you told me, no expectations and you don't have to take it any further than you're comfortable. As long as you're upfront and honest you'll be good to go.
Glad to hear that your numbers are good, I know it helps to have one area of your survival needs on the positive side. If you're going to have a confused and strangely behaved W, you might as well be making some money at the same tim.
Sleep is often disturbed if there is something unsettled, do you ever journal before bed?
Be well my friend, I appreciate your insight today on my sitch. Was helpful and read a few times over to make sure it stuck.
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Don't want to lock your thread but just want to wish you good luck with your date. I am very happy for you. Seems like life is taking another direction, so go slow and avoid hurting your heart again.
Hi Sotto. It was a good evening. Lady is an ER doctor from Greece. We seemed to get on well and she's asked to se me again. We had a nice steak dinner over looking Dublin bay and the food was great
Not sure how I feel , lady was very attractive ( if you like that blond haired , blue eyed , pretty , fit type ) funny and good conversationalist She laughed at my jokes ( always a bonus ) and she was a really positive , can do type of person
Maybe I'm just not ready or maybe I'm more attached than i realise. im certainly not as keen as the Dr is
Other news EXW called on Friday and she had run over a dog at the animal shelter where she works. She was very upset and I did go over the friend limit a wee bit. I offered to meet her but she said it was ok.
She called later that evening to thank me for talking to her and caring. I validated
Nothing much else to report. Feeling like I'm on an even keel most of the time and that's welcome. Kids all doing well D116s birthday at the end of the month and he's already looking at cars ! !!!
Small bit of bad news , I didn't win the euro millions , so that's not good. !!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
