Pp, like you and fogg, my W had a miscarriage. She wasn't the same after that, until years later when we had our first child. At that point, the baby was the center of her universe and I was just a bystander at times. I didn't deal with it well, and started drinking... and here I am.
I can't believe how many people go through the same things. But, I believe that you, and I, are growing and learning and bettering ourselves through these tough times.
Keep it up!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....