love love love reading your post! Hope you will keep updating. Seems like your ex has a lot of work to do on herself and will hopefully one day realize it. She is obviously really hurting right now.
I learned from your sitch, that if there is any possible way of WAS coming back we have to truly be detached, to the point of not really wanting them back. They can sense it too. I also learned by reading your perspective as a husband , that tempted as I am to make comments or throw " truth darts" or show any bitterness and spite (so hard not to in this situation) I am best off just being nice As possible and showing myself in good light. While I feel justified to do the former, it will only make me look bad and prove him right. Sometimes I feel like being nice makes me look weak but reading this makes me realize different.
although I have to say in my case I don't thing R is really going to happen anyway. Our marriage hasn't had what your marriage seemed to have (passion and affection) for a long time and my husband is not the type that would ever initiate anyway. But thank you for continuing to post even while your in good place! It's great having positive things to read.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
