I think most women have a need to talk about their problems to someone. It may be their mother, sister, or best friend. If she has no relatives or other women friends, that could be the basic reason she's turning to him. She may not be the least bit attracted to him, however, it can always change.
Sandi,
In your mind, is being the best listener a good start at counteracting this? Getting back the trust that he cares about what she is saying?
