Meeting her is something only you can decide. If you have hopes of reconciliation, then that throws another wrench into things. Some feel it is OK and encourage it while others don't. My personal opinion is as I stated earlier - if I have hopes of reconciliation with my W, then I won't ever consider dating anyone else. And yes, there have been several opportunities and some pressure from one much younger woman (in her 20s and I am 45), but I wouldn't and couldn't go there. My heart and energy is solely focused on my W, even though we are separated.

Last edited by Spiff69; 11/04/15 05:17 PM.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.