Oh no offense taken here, it was an off the wall question I never thought of... I'll clarify a little also. She found out while off on maternity leave because he never changed his habits. This was all happening while she was usually at work and he basically exposed himself.

I know in a situation like that m, there is "baggage" that comes along but who doesn't have that? I know I do. I have an ex and a son.

Anyway, it doesn't matter at this point anyway because who knows what tomorrow brings. I could end up deciding to meet her and not giving it the time of day. The water may be too cold. Who knows haha


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home