Just wanted to let you know that I've been where you are. It's not fun. Limbo is almost worse than getting on with the painful parts, but there is a LOT to be learned about yourself here. I believe that limbo is where we learn to put our own stake in the ground and make decisions about ourselves when everything else is hinging on an unknown.
Really use this time for yourself. Truly dive into any work that you need to do and try to keep the focus less on your H and more on yourself. I spent a lot of weeks lying in bed during limbo just depressed and upset thinking that my W held the key to my future, future happiness, and all of the decisions that I could make moving forward.
It wasn't until I made a few of my own not caring how they effected her that I regained some power in my life. Make your own decisions. Like you I don't have kids so it was easy to say - ok, I'm now going to do XYZ no matter how that's viewed by my W or how that may or may not change the status of my situation.
You've got immense power right now, use as much of it as you can.
Big hug,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
