Rouky To be honest, I don't have any hope for reconciliation at this point. In a way, I think my husband is right and can see why he feels we have nothing to save. (Our last year together we were living without privacy in my families house) Also he has distanced and detached himself for so long I don't thing that those loving feelings ever really return in our interactions. We just keep growing more and more apart. I read some others posts where this seems to occur, but not in my case. We are basically NC except for kids. For some reason, I am very scared of the actual legal process though.


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015