Sorry, just all over the place now.

We work in the same industry, and because of who he is, people know me as 'his wife'.

I feel it's about to start getting out there, and people are about to find out.

The only thing I can think of as a way of dealing with it is holding my head high, and saying nothing.

I like my job, I really do. I find it gives me back much more than it takes from me. I'm scared it's about to get really stressful because of all of this. I already have a sneaking suspicion that someone (older, wiser) has already cottoned on.

What do I do? How do I cope? How do I handle all the things he's saying about me?


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017