Sunny - we haven't hired a forensic accountant but I believe it is time to do so.

Avanti - how I love reading your posts, you give me so much to think about. I have to thank you again for forcing me to set my goals. I have not panicked at all during this. I have remained calm and patient. He did not trigger a reaction from me. I owe that to you and V, As, Azzork and Sunny. Thank you.

When I called to say goodnight to S4 I asked if he had a second. He was in a much better mood. I simply stated that I agreed neither of us want to cause each other financial harm by moving to litigation. I would appreciate it if he would consider keeping the collaborative process. We have been really good at working through our disagreements thus far. I am willing to listen and compromise, I would like to see your counter offer. He said he was shocked by the numbers and felt that I skipped a step (huh?) in going straight to submitting offers. I said I am sure he was shocked and if he will think about what I said. He said he would so we will see what happens next...


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15