in house seperation (3)

[vise82]

Hey Sandi,

You are asking about hugs and cuddles, is that a rhetorical question because I didn't give any hugs or cuddles.

Its been a week of no fighting and arguing. That means a week of peace, of feeling better, of less stress.

I did take my W up on the offer to take the kids to the toy store and grocery shopping, and dinner was added in last minute because the kids have to eat. We even went to the park together with the kids.

It was all good and fun. What do I get out of it.

I get my Wife in a good place before she goes on her two night work conference. I don't want to give her any reason to be mad at me before she goes on that trip. Yes that is fear from me, based on insecurities that she will be in an alcohol party environment. I don't want to give her a reason to cheat on me.

Don't get me wrong I see the risk if I continue down this path. Why will she want it to change, living separated in the house and we are not together but we are. I guess that is the problem, I still think we are together. I still wear my ring. She mentioned Christmas as the reason for the toy store so we can see what the kids want. Because the kids don't know anything we are going to be sharing the cost of the gifts.

Ok your turn to tell me what a mistake it was to go out with my W and kids...