I just reread your first post of this thread. I could have written it last night. I may remove all my threads soon and change name, but I will stay in touch.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
