Ep, I need to catch up on your thread but my first thought is that abandoning collaboration would not be in your best interest, you have to find new attorneys, it's just a waste of money considering that most cases are not actually taken to litigation anyway. Let me backtrack on your thread and sleep some and I'll do my best to post tomorrow. In the meantime, breathe, and remember how fabulous you really are.
Edited:did you hire a forensic accountant or not? I think not, right?