Just checking into your tread buddy. Stay strong as i know affairs are hard to overcome. The trust you once had for that person is shattered. Just by thinking about it makes me sick. My wife having an emotional affair with a guy in a different country kills me, i cant imagine you. But praying to our Lord to comfort us is always the best way. I recommend you listen to this son, look it up on youtube is called Lord I need you - by Matt Maher. This song always gets me by when i start feeling depressed and down. Stay strong and ask God to guide you, he wants you to plead to him, all you have to do is ask. I promise you he will talk back to you in his word. Ill keep you in my prayers today buddy.
Here is a question. If she were to accept her mistake and ask for forgiveness , would you take her back? Would you really forgive her affair?
