Those examples are bait. You might as well gobble the hook, too, b/c it will pull you into a R talk.......and probably end in a fight.
You can't control what she chooses to believe (especially a WW). The best thing to do is say nothing at all and leave her with her thoughts. Validation is okay, if you are good at it. Otherwise, you'll still get pulled into a R talk.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
