My H is the same way. I believe you may have noticed that. He never expected me to stand up for myself in any way. I often wonder what they think is going to happen? The temper tantrums are the hardest to watch. I keep wondering if this raging idiot has been inside my H all along, and I never noticed.

You did really well. I paid careful attention so that I can follow your lead the next time he's looking for a fight.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti