Hey OhGreat,

Thanks for the support. I feel I am stronger, but I am still too attached.

W has texted me, and I was feeling like I was missing her and that this no texting at work was too much and I should text her.

So she texted me and again it not an emergency, So I have told her last week that I will text her back when I am done work.

She wants for us to go with the kids to a toy store because the kids want to go, and then we can go grocery shopping.

Now I am torn, I miss my W but I don't want to get into the friend zone, and did the kids want this or is this manipulation (bread crumbs)?

What does she get out of it?

Its easier to go to a toy store with two adults with two kids.

I don't see any harm with me going with her and the kids.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016