Thanks Mleigh. I don't know that I'm sweet as such. He and I lived together for over 7 years and I was a big part of his life before that. It would be really surprising not to want to keep in touch I think - although I can imagine it isn't uncommom in difficult circumstances.

So, I did text him with a suggested date and he is up for it. He and I have exchanged a few texts to start the ball rolling. There hasn't been any input from his Mum, so I presume she is happy. I asked him to chat with her and make sure.

Not posted much lately - been pretty busy....and I have a new GAL activity starting tonight - Divorce Recovery Workshop! I'm heading off out in 20 mins or so. I've been looking forward to it (is that allowed??) and I'm hoping it lives up to expectations. It will be good to meet nine or so others also trying to recover from a relationship breakdown.

All quiet WRT H. We have so little contact nowadays, but I am always conscious of the next contact being just around the corner somewhere. I'm almost looking forward to the point where he can drop into a big black hole and there is no need for us to be in touch about anything. Contact doesn't seem to help me much and because ours is such a low contact sitch, I find it stressful when it happens - although I'm doing much better than I was.

Anyway - must dash.....I'll report back tomorrow!!!! Take care all xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus