have i been making mistakes too long part 7

[Huddy]

Clint would probably say 'to hell with you, the kid is staying with me'. Difficult to say that isn't it? In the back of your mind you're thinking 'if I say anything like that, it'll just push her away, even more'. Look at it the other way - she might see that as being strong and that she can't take it for granted that you'll do everything she wants, her way. You don't have to be cold or harsh (although, that takes practice) but just stand firm.

I agree with the cake eating argument. She can behave as badly/irresponsibly as she wants and you'll just take it - right? No. You have to start detaching a bit. The buying you a heat pack is her way of saying 'I can still do what I want. I only have to do a little and T will think I still need him!'.

She's like a sea siren. Beware.