Hey isit,

I have been getting in shape. I played my first soccer game on Sunday. I have mainly watching what I eat, and drinking water more.

My wardrobe I have not changed it. I don't have too much. Its all stuff my W has bought me, I still have a few shirts that I haven't worn yet.

Yes I shave and I have been changing when I get home from work to look my best. I have contacts now that I change out into and take off the glasses. When my W first met me I was wearing contacts.

I do walk tall, and by nature I talk softly. I am not a big on talking. I need to get better with validating.

I have not read those two books, The only book I really read was DB book.

The primary love language is a new concept for me. But I think hers is gifts. I mistaken that for her being materialistic. But after going to that website I see that its the thought and caring going into the gift is what she like about gifts.

Her whole family is all about gifts. In my MR I couldn't understand it as this was the opposite of my family and again I miss interpreted it as being materialistic.

Cant introduce gift giving as its one of the rules of DB, no gift buying.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016