I have been getting in shape. I played my first soccer game on Sunday. I have mainly watching what I eat, and drinking water more.
My wardrobe I have not changed it. I don't have too much. Its all stuff my W has bought me, I still have a few shirts that I haven't worn yet.
Yes I shave and I have been changing when I get home from work to look my best. I have contacts now that I change out into and take off the glasses. When my W first met me I was wearing contacts.
I do walk tall, and by nature I talk softly. I am not a big on talking. I need to get better with validating.
I have not read those two books, The only book I really read was DB book.
The primary love language is a new concept for me. But I think hers is gifts. I mistaken that for her being materialistic. But after going to that website I see that its the thought and caring going into the gift is what she like about gifts.
Her whole family is all about gifts. In my MR I couldn't understand it as this was the opposite of my family and again I miss interpreted it as being materialistic.
Cant introduce gift giving as its one of the rules of DB, no gift buying.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016