When the reality of what D really will look like sets in they spew, mine certainly did. Then came along the various tactics, spew didn't work, nice didn't work, manipulation didn't work.... Because I decided whatever the state awarded as fair was fair... Just not to her and that was her problem, and as I told her for me to agree to a penny less for myself would be to fail S as a father as it would take away from him as well. I also added that with this not being my choice I slept just fine about my stance ..... All from a place of strength not punishing her , just very matter of fact about it
Seems your W is really hung up on you and the 20 somethings, may be more going on behind the scenes there for her now that she is in her 40's thinking maybe she missed out on a few things ... Good for thought
